From Overwhelmed to "Oh-it's done!"
The Small Steps Method™
A neuro-affirming toolkit to help you take action—without pushing yourself past your limits.
Build momentum, protect your energy, and finally complete those big tasks (even with ADHD, AuDHD, chronic illness, or plain old burnout).
Lifetime access on app or desktop
From Great Unwashed to Great Explorer
Hi, I’m Nicci—a Queer AuDHD ex-nurse turned Confidence Coach.
In my 30s I was in such a place I could barely walk to the end of the road, let alone find the energy to shower. I needed help—but not a fix. I needed something that worked with my brain, not against it.
So I tried things out, until one day I realised I’d sold my home and travelled through 18 countries over 2 years with two neurodivergent children in tow.
How? I broke it down into tiny, safe steps.
I used this method to help my son—who was terrified of boats—board a ferry with a smile. And later, when my clients were stuck under a pile of life admin or surrounded by unused crafts, they used it to help themselves too.
So, if you’re sitting there wondering how -
- To do what you want to
- To know that you're not lazy
- To even be able to 'self-care'
- To go on that adventure
- To know where to start
- To avoid burnout when you do
What they're saying...
“This is so valuable. I was just nodding along as you spoke. Before I knew it, I’d sorted out the paperwork I’d been putting off—cancelled subscriptions I’d forgotten about and saved myself £166 in life admin!”
-JY
— Mother, Gym Lover, ADHDer Who Finally Did the Thing
You’re Not Lazy. You’re Not Broken.
Stop comparing yourself to horses - you're a zebra. You’ve just been trying to use systems that weren’t made for your brain. So...
What Makes This Work (Even If Everything Else Hasn’t)
✨ It’s spoon-friendly. You’ll never be asked to plan your whole life or fix all your habits at once.
✨ One tiny hoof forward at a time. Because we don’t do galloping around here.
✨ It’s there when you’re ready. Come back as many times as you need. This isn’t about keeping up; it’s about starting again and again—without shame.
What's inside Small is Smart and the BrilliantlyYOU Community
👉🏽 Three bite-sized 10-minute videos- quick, practical, no fluff
👉🏽 One beautiful PDF workbook- use it on-screen or print it out
👉🏽 Repeatable process- works even on low-energy, ‘can’t people today’ days
👉🏽 Designed for real life- not perfect planner days
👉🏽 Access on Desktop- AND from an app in your pocket for stuck on sofa days
👉🏽 Lifetime access- so you can come back any time, no guilt required
Safe for wobbly, no-spoon-left days. Lifetime access.
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Little Extras That Make a Big Difference
(aka: The Zebra Sparkle Bonuses)
When you join Small is Smart, you don’t just get the method…
You get access to BrilliantlyYOU with a whole bunch of neuro-affirming extras designed to make things even easier:
🧠 Bonus Body Doubling Section
Come work, walk, or clean with me. Gentle, no-pressure co-working sessions so you don’t have to do it all alone.
💡 Bonus Meditation Section
Access guided led breathing and LIVE and recorded meditation practices with a certified practitioner to regulate your nervous system.
🦓 Bonus Self-Care Tools
Mini tools for when you’re frozen, flaring, or fed up, including sound baths from a certified healer and vagus nerve stimulation tools
🌈 Seeking Sparkle Community
A place to find joy (no noisy Facebook groups here). Connect with people who get it—and finally feel like you belong.
📱 Access it all from your sofa
Use the Simplero app or desktop—because some days you just can’t get up, even when throwing in a countdown from ten - I know.
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“I am really loving Small is Smart - I'm using it to break down tasks that have been on my de-clutter to do list for months”
Vicky
One-to-one Client
“Nicci - Is this the right price? Ridiculous! What an absolute bargain”
Jo
Client from How to Unmask
You’re Not Lazy. You’re Not Broken.
Stop comparing yourself to horses - you're a zebra. You’ve just been trying to use systems that weren’t made for your brain. Take one tiny hoof forward today… the rest can wait.
Lifetime access on app or desktop